hello, i just signed up for the drf and im really annoyed. im trying to create a mod and it wont work. so i try to message a guy because he's online and was commenting on the topic. but there's no way to send messages. or any way to contact someone. then he went offline so now in ♥♥♥♥ over for the night and cant do anything because of this horrid layout and privilege system. i also tryed commenting on that post but my post needs approval... what, do you have many people messing around here that you need to have all this stuff.

Lots of bots.
Having the first post approval system vastly cuts down the number of bot posts that normal users see, and makes processing them very easy for us.

so i should be fine from now on? can i send private measages?

If you were able to post that without waiting for a mod to approve it, then yes you should be able to. If not, let me know and I can make sure you're removed from the newly registered users group.